Tag Archives: marriage

Is Romantic love more than a feeling? Quick words?

  True story. A church couple asked their teenage girls class what subjects they wanted to talk about? All 13 replied in a survey–love and marriage. The teacher asked them, “suppose your boyfriend said, “I love you,” how would you … Continue reading

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Chasing Marriage Misery: Pixie Dust Promises

“To guarantee yourself a lifetime of misery, be sure you marry someone with the intent of changing their behavior” — Charlie Munger  This lines up with what I learned in Psychology class; the best predictor of future behavior is NOT … Continue reading

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Premarital Counseling Q: Are You Marrying Jesus?

  “Are you marrying Jesus?” Erwin Lutzer asked this question to a lady contemplating marriage. It woke her up. She realized who he really was. It exposed the man as not one with a heart for the Lord. She chose not to … Continue reading

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Is Marriage All About Me?: Self vs. Serving

   Teddy Roosevelt’s daughter said that her father liked to be the corpse at every funeral and the bride at every wedding. He loved attention. Pride is so sneaky, so  persistent. Pride blocks our willingness to serve others. It can … Continue reading

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Mark And Kesha’s Love Story

Meet a neat young couple, Mark and Kesha. My wife and I recently went out to eat with them.  They just moved here to be on staff at our church and school. They are a bubbly, clean-cut, attractive couple. Mark … Continue reading

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Super Addictions: Fornication, Adultery – 7 Excuses

   Major issues deserve specific responses. Man wants his pleasure. God wants purity. Hollywood and the world is putting out the lie that fornication and  living together, is normal, natural. Satan always arrives on the wings of a lie (Jn 8.44). … Continue reading

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17 Reasons Not To Live Together – Cohabit

 1.  God has a wonderful plan, a better plan, for your life. Jesus said, “I am come that they might have life, and that they might have it more abundantly.” (Jn 10.10.b) (Jer 29.11).  “For God so loved the world, that he … Continue reading

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Cohabiting vs. marriage

Hi Reader, I awoke this morning at 4:50 AM. After a pit stop I could not drift back to sleep. This is a holiday but my body did not get the word. So here I am – blogging.  Right now I am reflecting  … Continue reading

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Satan’s lie: ‘worldly relationships are necessary to be fulfilled’

  How many  are buying the big lie that: God’s people are not enough for you.? To be contented in life you need cool, worldly friends and worldly play toys? I experienced just the opposite after being saved. I was lonely … Continue reading

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That Male-Female Chemistry is Lurking

The male-female chemistry is  hard wired. We can be attracted to any number of people besides our spouse.  That’s life. Believers can become  infatuated with believers or unbelievers. It is certainly not the Holy Spirit leading one to become emotionally involved … Continue reading

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